Leisure Picks to Check Vibe Fit​Talking about leisure habits is an easy way to figure out each other’s “relaxation rhythm”—no overthinking needed to tell if hanging out will feel comfortable.​If they say, “I love going out and wandering on weekends,” don’t just respond “That’s nice.” Try: “Wandering around is so pleasant—do you prefer aimlessly strolling through neighborhoods, or planning ahead to go to a park? I always love randomly popping into small alleys to find fun little shops.” This helps see if your “spontaneous vs. planned” styles match.​When they mention, “I sometimes stay home the whole day,” don’t just say “Me too.” You can ask: “Staying home is the best—do you spend it watching shows and zoning out, or messing with small crafts? I always do puzzles when I stay home; it’s super stress-relieving.” Learning each other’s “stay-at-home styles” avoids awkwardness in future time together.​Key point: Leisure topics are low-pressure but revealing. They let you quickly tell if “relaxing together” will click—and if it clicks, you’ll both want to plan another date.