Small date disagreements (like “sushi vs. pizza”) aren’t annoying—they’re quick tests for how you’ll get along. Keep it light, not stressful.​If you want sushi but they prefer pizza, skip “No, sushi’s better!” Try: “Pizza sounds good too—have you got a favorite spot? I love trying new pizza places, even if I usually lean sushi.” Shows flexibility, not stubbornness.​When choosing activities—you want a walk, they want a movie—say: “A movie could be cozy! Do you prefer funny ones or something more laid-back? I’m down either way if it’s low-key.” Asks their preference while keeping an open mind.​If they’re running 10 mins late, don’t sigh. Try: “No rush! I grabbed a drink while waiting—did traffic hit you too?” Keeps it calm, not accusatory.​Key: Small disagreements reveal if you both prioritize “winning” or “getting along.” Stay chill, ask their take, and you’ll both feel comfy—even when choices differ.​