Keep leisure chats snappy—they’re easy vibe tests.If they say, “I bake on weekends,” skip “Nice!” Try: “Bake—stick to recipes or tweak? I added too much sugar last time (total mess).” Spots “precise vs. flexible” fit.When they mention, “I walk in parks after work,” ask: “Parks—people-watch or zone out? I make up tiny stories about strangers (so silly).” Checks small joy matches.If they say, “I watch shows before bed,” try: “Shows—re-watch faves or new ones? I rewatch my go-to sitcom 10x.” Sees “routine vs. new” alignment.Key: Short question + your little slip = fast, easy connection. No fluff needed.