Chatting about social habits lets you check if your “out-and-about” vibes match—no awkward pressure.​If they say “I hang out with friends sometimes,” skip “Nice!” Try: “Hanging with friends is great—do you prefer small dinners or big group outings? I’m all for cozy 3-4 person meals.” Their pick shows if your social energy aligns.​When they mention “I skip parties most weekends,” don’t just say “Me too!” Try: “Same—do you use weekends to recharge alone, or with one close person? I usually read or bake solo.” Asking their “quiet weekend” style reveals if downtime clicks.​Key: Social talks are low-effort—they help you see if future hangs (big or small) will feel easy.