Want to let them know you’re into them—without gushing or overdoing it? It’s all in small, intentional chat moves, not big declarations.​First, tie their words to future moments. If they say, “I love hiking,” don’t just say “Cool!” Try: “That’s awesome—there’s a trail I’ve been wanting to check out with views of the lake. You’d probably notice all the good spots.” It links their interest to a potential shared plan, subtly signaling you want to spend more time together.​Comment on their reactions, not just their stories. If they laugh while talking about a childhood trip, say: “I love how excited you get talking about that—you must have so many good memories from then.” It shows you’re watching them, not just listening to the topic.​Share tiny, matching vulnerabilities. If they admit, “I’m terrible at cooking,” don’t say “Me too!” (empty agreement). Try: “Same—I burned toast last week! Do you have a go-to ‘I can’t cook’ meal, like cereal or takeout?” It’s a small, relatable share that feels genuine, not forced.​Skip generic compliments (“You’re nice”). Instead, praise something specific from the chat: “It’s cool how you volunteer at the animal shelter—taking time for that says so much about you.” Specificity proves you’re paying attention, making the compliment feel real.​The key: Focus on their joy and details, not just “impressing” them. Sincere interest shines when you’re curious about who they are, not just checking boxes for a second date.​