Talking about how you handle little unexpected moments reveals a lot about how you’ll vibe together—short, casual chats work best.​If they say, “I once missed a bus to a plan,” don’t just say “Bummer!” Try: “Ugh, that’s the worst—did you laugh it off and grab coffee, or rush to fix it fast? I usually pause for a snack first; stress fixes nothing!” This shows if your “chill vs. urgent” styles click.​When they mention, “A café messed up my order,” skip “That’s annoying.” Ask: “Do you just go with it, or ask them to fix it? I hate fussing, but sometimes a wrong drink ruins my morning!” Learning each other’s “flexible vs. particular” sides prevents future small frustrations.​Key: Tiny surprise talks are quick but telling—they let you know if handling snags together will feel easy.​