Small Decisions to Test Rapport
Talking about how you make daily small decisions can quietly reveal how well you’ll get along—no complicated topics needed, just simple choices.If they say, “I always take forever to decide when ordering food,” don’t just laugh and say “Me too.” Try: “I get that struggle! Do you compare every item on the menu over and over, or ask the server for recommendations? I usually pick fast by thinking ‘Do I want spicy or mild today’—otherwise, I could take half an hour.” This helps see if your “indecisive vs. decisive” styles match.When they mention, “I check ratings first before choosing a movie,” don’t just reply “That makes sense.” You can ask: “I check ratings sometimes too, but occasionally I pick a movie on a whim just from the trailer—do you fully trust ratings, or do you give niche films a chance?” Learning each other’s “rational vs. spontaneous” sides avoids conflicts when picking activities for future dates.Key point: Small decision habits hold clues about your compatibility rhythm. Talk through them, and next time you plan where to go or what to do on a date, it’ll go much smoother.




