Talking about daily small achievements lets you quietly spot someone’s positive traits—no grand topics needed, just little things work.​If they say, “I finally learned to make milk tea yesterday,” don’t just say “Impressive.” Try: “That must have given you such a sense of accomplishment! Did you try several times before succeeding, or nail it on the first go? I burned mine twice before making a good one—I really admire patient people.” This helps you see their perseverance and attitude when facing small challenges.​When they mention, “I organized my messy desk,” don’t just reply “That must feel clean.” You can ask: “Didn’t it feel super stress-relieving after organizing? Do you sort things by category, or just tidy up casually? I always find old little things when I organize, and it makes me happy for ages.” This lets you learn about their way of doing things and what easily brings them joy.​Key point: Small achievement topics are warm and easygoing, and they let you discover the lovely sides of each other—likability will quietly grow.​